Admitting you’re unhappy isn’t selfish

There are many reasons why the last relationship I was in ended. And for a long time after the breakup I tired them all on. It took me a long time to be truly honest with both myself and those who took the time to ask.

My last relationship was challenged many factors. But ultimately it ended because I wasn’t happy.

Are your first friends your best friends?

In the final scene of the 1986 film Stand By Me, the narrator signs off with the line “I never had any friends like the ones I had when I was 12…. does anyone?” Though Stand By Me has long been one of my favourite films, it wasn’t until the last few years that I’ve come to value the sentiment of those words. Do any of the friends you make in your adult years ever come close to sharing the bonds you enjoyed with the friends you grew up with?